Ejaculation control is one of the first concepts of male Tantra to master and has many benefits. Having control of your ejaculation does not mean that you prevent yourself from having an orgasm. However it does mean that you hold off ejaculating and extend your arousal for longer periods of time, so that you have stronger and more intense orgasms.

Most of us have one mode in sex. We get hard and we get off. With some "action" in between.

There are other ways that you can do to create more intensified pleasure moments... over and over again. Here is one way:

Set aside 30-60 minutes with yourself for some self-pleasuring
Arouse yourself as you would normally
Breath and make sounds to increase your sensations
Feel the excitement, and when you are close to ejaculation
Stop, rest one hand on your cock,
Relax your whole body
Touch and rub the rest of your body with the other hand
Breath and Enjoy the sensation

Try this 2 or more times, to create several peak, and when you are ready to ejaculated. Go for it, and notice the intensity you have created.