I most often work with men on expressing their pleasure with breathing, sound, and movement, and find that when you can really "let loose" simply and easily.  At least that is what my last client said.

He was nervous when he arrived ( just like many who arrive for an introductory experience), and he did not have to much expression in his face. He didn't smile or much else in the way of expression in his face. I took my time to get to know him and help him feel comfortable.

We talked about breathing sound, and movement  and it's relation to ecstatic expression through touch.. and how to to that. We practiced each element of ecstatic expression,. one by one., and then started to put it all into play.

When we moved to the sacred undressing ritual, slowly undressing him. I touched his body all over with tantalizing tantric touch but he did not move a muscle or breath. I encouraged him to breath, encouraged him to move but still nothing. hmmmmmm!

We stopped for a moment, and i had him open his eyes and touch my arm, with that same touch. "Watch my reaction and my response." I moved with delight from his light touch..  His tantic touching was so amazing.

After seeing how I expressed it. He was able to allow himself to move, shiver, and breath with delight from that point on he opened a new door to his pleasure potential.

Now that was simple.