Yes, I mean the drug ecstasy. Why do gay men like to take ecstasy???  Maybe the euphoric feeling? maybe the uninhibited feelings to connect and have loving feeling for one another? maybe the intensity of all of the senses?   It is all of that and much more.

I am not a supporter of taking drugs, but i am a supporter of reaching ecstatic states of being. It is really possible to experience something very similar with tantra and tantric techniques without taking drugs. Some get the same elation from caffeine and other substances. So it is not only about illegal drugs..

In many ways, tantra is made for gay man, and made for those who really like to experience joy and elation on many levels.... and erotic--tantra give us a way to connect out sexuality and sex play to a higher level intensity.