I bought my first restraints at IML. They are pretty simple hand restraints with nice fur to comfort the hands. I hung a few hooks in the tantric den just to play with them and I left the up for the day. When my client walked in he took an intrest in them... and soon after his hands were spread above his head and restrained for his first leather bondage tantra session.

In many ways a BDSM session is constructed the same way as the  Austino tantra session.

1. I take people out of their normal element and alter their reality.

2. I am the giver, and they are the reciever. (in most sessions). In BDSM they call that dad/boy, master/slave,     ....top/bottom.

3. I take them on a physical journey to heighten their senses.

the difference is that i use the subtle, rather than the hard and forceful..... well most of the time.. teehee