Today's Lesson- Anal Pleasure
To many men I talk with, - those 2 words (anal & pleasure) do not go together. Yes there is something called anal sex but for many - it is pretty damn painful. We often hear "encouragement" in phrases like .... just bite the pillow... or ..... It will only hurt for a little while.... or........Take it like a man
Yikes! I wouldn't call that encouragement for pleasure. I would call that pain!
If you are someone who wants to find pleasure "down there" wouldn't you like to touch yourself and see what is pleasurable to you??
Try this sensation exercise.
In the shower, try using a finger or two on your butt hole.. Touch as light as you can... try a little stroke, or tapping, or even circles. See what you feel and report back.
You can share with everyone here, or just share with me. ... and then we will go to the next level.
Your Erotic Coach
Austino
You are right. I have discovered another sexual organ when my prostate and rectuel were was first massaged, 2 years ago.
I now extend my sexual pleasure far beyond I could ever imagine.
Yes, anal and pleasure are intimatly linked.
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Hello Austino,
I love your blog about anal pleasure.
In my experiences of anal pleasure, my butt hole hurt. Even though it hurt, I did notice that there was a unique pleasure sensation and decided I wanted to explore my anal area more.
You mentioned taking time to explore the anal area while in the shower.
That is a perfect suggestion. In fact, I've been exploring and becoming familiar with my little "rosie" for years. My technique is to use a soapy lather to gently glide my finger or fingers into my anus. I also keep a small massage bottle of sesame seed oil in my shower. There I can take time to lube my anal sphincter and explore the territory.
As a result of my anal exploration, I have become extremely familiar with the territory. By touching myself, I've learned what I want in the way of touch and attention from another. By experimenting with amounts of lube, with strokes or movement and with my own intention, I have a better idea of what a play partner might be experiencing.
When I am with a play partner, I do not feel awkward or unsure. I'll describe what I want and show or demonstrate the type of touch I prefer. I like to show the amount of lube to use. Often I ask my partner if they would like me to demonstrate on them my special touch. Tender and loving playfulness is always part of the routine. Asking permission to enter another's butt is part of my anal etiquette.
I appreciate your blog on anal pleasure and would like to hear from others about their experiences. Mostly I would love to hear about the techniques people use to explore anal pleasure within their own practice. I would also like to know of techniques that others are using to introduce partners and playmates to the unique depth of anal sensuality.
Kisses to you and your Blog-readers.
Kameshwari-Kate
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