I got a call from a man who said. "Tantra is that thing where you don't cum, right??. I dont like that."

Tantra is quite an encompassing subject, not really one specific thing. Here is a little more information for you.......

Tantra.com says... "Developed in India, Tantric practices were at their height between 500 to 1300 AD. Today Tantra is a living system designed to promote rapid growth towards enlightenment. Tantra's components include yoga, meditation, deity worship, whole-body health, and Ayurvedic medicine." (www.tantra.com)

There are 64 ancient arts in white tantra. They includes a wide range of artistic thing done with more passion and  consciousness: singing, dancing and so much more. Check this out  ---> 64 Arts on----- Tantra Temple.us

There are also another 64 arts of red tantra, which is about Tantra Sexuality. The Kama Sutra is the best know book for this.

"The Kama Sutra details many kissing techniques, the Sixty-Four Arts, courting practices, modes of touching including biting and scratching, sexual positions or asanas, how to treat marriage partners as well as consorts, the concocting of aphrodisiacs, and much more." (www.tantra.com).

There is a Gay Kama Sutra. I find it to be a good coffee table book.

"Many people able to reach deep ecstatic sexual states liken these to transcendental spiritual experiences. They discover that the distinction between the physical and the spiritual is not as clear as they were taught. They may even feel that they have come to know God, or ultimate reality, through sex. Tantra Yoga and the Kama Sutra both view sexuality as vital aspects of the path to enlightenment." (www.tantra.com)

Within all these specific practices and exercises, and in light of slowing down and enjoying pleasure longer and not trying to rush things with sex and solo sex.......there is something about waiting a while longer to ejaculate.

As you can see it's not a sound byte.